Wife does not like Sex -Hi, I am Jay (age 30) married, wife (age 28) we have a two year?

Talk to her about it. Let her know how it is making you feel. She may not even realize. Perhaps she does not feel as attractive anymore (I went through that briefly after having our daughter but I am lucky to have a husband who tells me I'm beautiful every single day-which really helped). I'm married with a 9 month old daughter. I have been married for 3 years. I think that people who say that it's normal for sex to diminish or cease after marriage/baby/etc just don't make enough time for it. It is something that you have to work on all the time because it's so easy to say that you 'have a headache' or that you're 'tired'. Start off with little things. Find the time to hug your partner. Tell him/her that you love them every night before you go to bed. Do a little something extra for the other person (ex. a nice foot rub, run a warm bath, take out the garbage without being asked, etc!). I think the little acts of tenderness go a long way in a relationship. If she says that she is stressed out...Maybe you could offer her a massage to help?...That can often lead to more, as well! It's one of my husband's most common 'moves' lol. Most importantly, you need to talk openly and honestly about it-no matter how awkward a conversation it may be. You will hopefully have a better understanding of each others feelings and go from there.